Liliya Tryfonyuk: "The people around me motivate to develop even more"

- Going into medicine, you need to know that patients are different and not everyone can perceive you as a professional...
- When I went to medicine, I understood that such a job involves communication not only with pleasant patients, but also with people with a difficult character, on whom the disease also leaves its mark. I became what I wanted to become, despite gender prejudices. In the future, I would like to combine studies with science, as in many countries of the world in this direction, as a rule, there are no gender prejudices in medicine.

Successful women of the Rivne region: Liliya Tryfonyuk - a doctor who restores the quality of life to patients



- What does Liliya Tryfonyuk dream about? Share a secret.
- Each of us dreams of something and strives for something, but our final goal is common - happiness. To be at least a little happier. The most amazing thing about all this is that we usually distance ourselves from it. And to be more precise, we are talking about the restrictions that we impose on everything. You can't, it's better not to, it's scary, scary, inconvenient.
Happiness accompanies absolutely everyone, and people are ready to do anything for happiness. Some try to buy it, some give it to others, hoping that they will reciprocate. Happiness is life. Sometimes we neglect this and live gray everyday life, as if we don't care anymore and we don't know what colorful colors are. Of course, at some moments it is difficult that sometimes you want to take an eraser and erase all the words from a sheet of paper, leaving nothing. At the same time, you should remember that you are exactly that colored pencil that nothing will erase. Nothing and never. You will sometimes paint life with slightly pale colors, and sometimes everything will shine brighter. But the most important thing is that you will always be on the canvas. In life itself, in the memory of others, in your profession...

- And how realistic is it to repaint difficult and difficult thoughts so that it does not stop you on the way to happiness?
- Thoughts are what eat us. Don't let your emotions rule you, just don't. After all, you don't depend on them - they depend on you. You have to live for happy and sad moments. This is what life is all about. The most important thing in life are bright colors, they cannot be replaced by memories and feelings, you just need to take a brush and apply your favorite colors on top of all problems. These are small things in a big world.
It is not the morning's fault that it is not good for you. How wonderful it is to wake up in the morning and hear the birds singing, look at the bright sun, smile and fill the house with happiness. If there is no sun outside today, then you have to play its role.

The urologist from Rivne Liliya Tryfonyuk received an international award

- In short, what plays a more important role in life: material things or feelings?
- Why do we close our eyes when we pray, when we cry or when we kiss? Because we know that we cannot see the most beautiful things in life, but we feel them with our hearts. If life constantly throws up hundreds of reasons for tears, you can think of thousands of reasons to smile. The more colors in life, the fewer gaps in it.
It is worth learning to look for happiness in small things. We must learn to notice happiness and develop the habit of living here and now. Each person is an individual. Every person is a colorful flower. It doesn't matter what color you are, what you do, what you love - respect each other and love yourself. Otherwise, the world will not be in the colors of the rainbow, it will be gray, like the asphalt underfoot...


- The syndrome of "postponing life" is something that we often see in many people. This is when a person cannot live for today, enjoy what he has, because he constantly postpones something for the future. And does active development at a young age, trips to international congresses, internships help you to combine such a small amount of free time and avoid the "postponed life syndrome"?
- Delayed life is not about delayed gratification at all. It's about deferred meaning. That is why it is dangerous. Each person writes a "draft" version of his own life every day, hoping to rewrite everything on the "clean sheet" after realizing his wishes in life. This is what happens with the syndrome of delayed life: a person writes only a draft of his life for years, dreams of a miracle, and meanwhile time passes. Months and years pass - but there is still no miracle. And now, after the end of decades, comes the realization of the "expired" life waiting for the "magical fairy godmother". A person has only two lives, and the second one begins when we suddenly understand that there is only one life. Therefore, despite a tight work schedule, I try to constantly improve myself professionally right now, fill my life with interesting meetings and people who give me positivity and inspiration, stimulate me to move forward.

Doctor Liliya Tryfonyuk: "J never want to change my profession"